About This Blog
This blog brings together psychological knowledge and lived experience. In the psychoeducational articles, I share insights into emotions, relationships, the body and nervous system, complex trauma, and inner processes of healing and growth.
Notes to Grow is a collection of personal essays about my own life - about how I meet life as it unfolds, what it touches within me, and how I learn, grow, and heal through it. These essays are especially close to my heart because it takes courage to show myself with such openness and honesty. Through them, I also hope to invite you to find your own way of showing who you are.
The tags beneath each article image tell you what kind of piece you are about to read.
Take what inspires you - and let go of the rest.
The Haircut - A story about self-worth, safety, and saying yes to being bold.
What began as a quiet night around the fire turned into something sacred—a spontaneous haircut by celebrity stylist Riawna Capri that became a leap into trust, healing, and self-worth. This is not just a story about hair. It’s about beauty, boldness, and saying yes to the woman you're becoming.
How a Donkey Opened my Heart: A Journey to Self-Healing and Transformation
A deeply personal reflection on rescuing Milagro, a donkey whose pain awakened something old and tender within me. This piece explores trauma, compassion, self-healing and the quiet transformation that can happen when love meets pain.
The Art of Surrender: Healing Without Effort
Sometimes, healing comes not from the relentless effort to fix ourselves, but from the quiet act of surrender. In a dream that kept visiting me, I found a rare moment of clarity and deep relaxation, something I struggle to grasp during the busyness of life. Through an encounter with butterflies in nature, I realized that true healing doesn't happen by controlling or protecting ourselves—it happens when we open up to the wounds we've tried to avoid.
For years, I had built an identity to shield myself from pain, believing that was the only way to stay safe. But in turning toward the very wounds I’d been running from, I discovered comfort and a sense of healing I didn’t expect. It wasn’t about doing more or trying harder. It was about trusting that healing was already happening within me, if I only allowed myself to receive it.

