About This Blog
This blog brings together psychological knowledge and lived experience. In the psychoeducational articles, I share insights into emotions, relationships, the body and nervous system, complex trauma, and inner processes of healing and growth.
Notes to Grow is a collection of personal essays about my own life - about how I meet life as it unfolds, what it touches within me, and how I learn, grow, and heal through it. These essays are especially close to my heart because it takes courage to show myself with such openness and honesty. Through them, I also hope to invite you to find your own way of showing who you are.
The tags beneath each article image tell you what kind of piece you are about to read.
Take what inspires you - and let go of the rest.
Sexuality as a Mirror of Trauma
What if your sexual fantasies are telling a story? A trauma-informed exploration of how kinks, shame and desire can reflect unmet needs, old wounds and the longing for healing.
Following the Shadow to Survive
A personal story about a calf in Oaxaca, a tied-up horse in Costa Rica, and the invisible ropes we all carry. Exploring how core beliefs not only keep us safe, but also keep us bound—even when we’re free—and what it takes to truly break into our potential.

